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A:Yes, go ahead.

A:Lewinsky.

A:Maybe it isn't that the young girls feel a man has a right to control them, maybe they need to have a man control them in order to feel "whole." If they have no self identity, then they will conform to whatever man happens to be in their lives. Any young girl has to make a decision to allow it to happen to her. The young men don't feel they are responsible to anyone and seem to be quite narrow minded about things. I put the blame on the lack of traditional parenting. Now, both parents feel they have to be in the workforce with a career. It used to be if a woman was a stay at home mom, that was fine. Now she is almost scorned by her fellow women who are working. Why? Those working moms are actually miserable in their careers and are probably jealous the SAHM can devote herself to the care and upbringing of her children.

A:it depends on the girl, and it also depends on what this guy looks like. with me, i'd find someone like omar epps to be hot!, but yet find someone like Nelly not. as for chris brown, i only find a cute side to him, and not as being hot! technically, cute guys and hot guys are seen as attractive guys. everyone's different

A:Well you know... when you go thru things, you are very capable of telling people what they shouldn't do! lol. I understand totally. But keep up the good work because you are helping people and you ALWAYS reap what you sow. Sometimes we give really great advice but we fail to follow our own advice! Just go back and read some of the answers you gave to others. You may see where you are going wrong. I wish you the best in love!