single girls zone

i just dont get it. i always enter the friend zone with every single girl i like. this is usually because im just so nice all the time, and i try to get to know them but when i do that i just totally enter the friend zone. i mean i dont want to be mean, and i want to get to know her, but its confusing how alot of my girl friends have crushes on such assholes, or they always complain to me about their boyfriend being a total jerk, and i just have to sit there and listen, cause im the guy friend, and it sucks. how do i stop entering this zone all the time, and how do i get the girl to like me? right now i just totally hit the friend zone with this one girl over myspace, but we havent talked much in RL because of summer vacation, but we will once we get back in school, so i could have a chance, so what should i do... like body language like or something. they are so hard to figure out

I constantly have women telling me, that I'm an "amazing guy" or if I talk to them online, they always say, they wish we could hang out or that they could have a guy like me. At first, it sounded like, I was just a cool guy, but I'm a little confused, because mostly taken girls tell me I'm an "amazing guy", then again, I don't seem to run into many single girls my age for whatever reason. So ladies, if you tell a guy, right after you meet him or talk to him, and tell him, "you are an amazing guy", do you mean, "Let's be friends" or "I dig this guy". What's odd is that, some of those girls, who just called me amazing, say, "You must have a girl", so I'm guessing if those girls say that, they aren't saying, "I will be your girl" LoL. Also, don't ask me how this got put into Weddings, I meant Singles and Dating.

I met a guy and we had sex in our first dates (great sex!). After a month like that, he told me he liked how I was and therefore did not want to hurt me and would prefer to be just my friend. Since then, he never attempted to have sex with me although there have been plenty of times when we were alone, but on the other hand he wants to spend a lot of time together: every single day we see each other (even when I am not available he comes by to say hello). He has invited me to go on some trips with him and I am confused. Therefore, I asked him whether he sees me only as a friend and he said that was a tough question, that he sometimes would like to have a gf who shared with him as many hobbies as we do share, but he did not want to change the situation between the two of us. And still....he keeps on looking for me. Its 2 months we are like this. Meeting costantly but with no sex at all. Have I been friendzoned? If so: is there any way to get out of this? I really like him!

i dont look at women in a very sexual way..im a very emotional person and i really do like the sex to come with love. but i have never had a gf..and im scared if i approach a girl in a sweet and loving way i might fall into the friend category and she might not see me as a potential bf (if shes single). i really cant go in a sexy funny way cos i dont feel it that way..i feel it deep down in my heart..i want a girl who accepts me that way..are there any girls out there like that? how did ur bf act when he first spoke to you?

When someone says that, to me it means you have no game. Good girls are not attracted to bad boys per se but bad boys generally have qualities that girls are looking for like confidence and spontaneous behavior. See nice guys are scared to ask girls out even if they know the girl likes them or they hesitate to ask the girl out and then when they do the girl has lost interest and places them in the friend zone and then the nice guys are going to complain about being in the friends zone. Also girls do not like bothered 24/7 and put on a pedestal. Seriously so never be all over a girl even if you like her give her some room and play it cool. Also don't do any wussy stuff like get her a bunch of roses on the first date, that just screams door mat. So if nice guys can just be confident and assertive and not be all over a girl like she's the last single person in the world you might not be in the friend zone so often.