free online personal ads

So heres the deal. I'm a shy semi-antisocial computer geek that doesn't go out much (partialy by choice, and partialy cause I never really have anyone to go out with). I've been single now for a while, and am starting to get rather lonely. No, I'm not just looking for sex or a one night stand, I want a real relationship. I tend to do most of my looking for love online. Out of all the personals I've used, Yahoo was the best, but they charge money now (they used to be free). I wouldn't mind paying if I actualy met someone, but most of the time nobody ever responds to my ad and the people whos ads I respond to usualy just ignore my email (if I'm lucky I'll get a, "thanks, but no thanks." Being rejected sucks enough as is, and paying money to be rejected sucks even more. So I was curious if anyone could point me to any good free online personals. Right now I use the Myspace classifieds, Craigs List, and Match Doctor. I'd apreciate any imput on this one.

I'm interested in finding online personal ad services that do not cost any money. I am aware of sites such as match.com, eharmony.com, and of course yahoo personals, but all of these services charge a fee. Are there any good services out there that a twenty-something girl can use for FREE?

My girlfriend has had personal ads up since before we were together. We've been together for 1 yr and lately i seen her update her ads and on top of that she took away relationship status on her facebook. I asked her about this and finally managed to squeeze out from her that she kinda wants the attention (I guess to see if she can attract other men i guess). She hasn't fully subscribed to the online ad (she has the free one where you can get messages but cant send one out). Should I accept this? ... Is this just a way for her to cure her insecurities?

Tired of filing out "free personal ads" only to find out at the end there is a fee for cost services at each site. I'm seeking to meet other women in the Pennsylvania area and wonder does a site (mentioned above) really exist online? Thanks :-)

creating a free personal website ?best place? no goecities..or such i want something really good.. .. if possible: fast for a free service online time:98%.. running for years large space anything extra : php/promotion/ftp/easy web builder/easy to use/etc,, no ads.. ..... aslo what tips you have for me ?.. sources.. external stuff to add.. and used like i know photobucket can be used also some sites allow uploading large files.. if the one i create the website on allow with a limit like 10mb .. also i know there is .tk domain for free .. like www.namehere.tk anything else? thanks.. and hope to get lots of answers :)