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In May 2004, my beloved 17yo niece was seriously ill. At that time a supposedly cancer-cure poison of the “blue scorpion”, “Escozul”, was advertised in my country and, desperate as I and my family were, I wrote to the manufactures in Cuba to make inquiries giving details of the young girl’s disease, asking if there were hope. My letter with my real name and private telephone number was published on “Havana Journal” in the “Cuba Culture News and Information” column, and was picked up by Search Engines. I recently found out and wrote to “Havana Journal” asking them to delete the entry from Yahoo, Google, and perhaps other search engines, because it is a violation of human right to privacy.They replied that they removed it, but the entry is still there. Could anyone tell me how to delete those entries? As a writer, my name appears hundreds of times in Search engines and, when someone is browsing for my articles and books, one comes accross our family’s tragedy and my telephone number!

I am tired of doing this manual so i can promote my web site I need to submit it to directories and search engines and build also link exchange which I do now. Is there any free but nice working software that I can use to submit my web site http://www.ezwebbuy.com to many directories and search engines relative to jewelry category so I can increase my rank which is 2 now. In case you can not point me something free then please provide some links to software that is relative cheap but working and most popular and used. Thank you

It's a new site and it's not even in Google even though I've been paying for Google ads. What's the best strategy to get my site listed?

I have a web server in co. But when I search my web through search engine it does not give any result. So how can I optimize my web with Search engines like that Google, Yahoo.

I know nothing on how this stuff works. I just want to know how to get it higher on the search rankings for google and yahoo.